It has been said that we live in a suicidal culture. This is no surprise given the unprecedented level of collective trauma in our nation and world. Yet despite the alarming increase in mental illness and suicide, it seems the church, and to a slightly lesser degree our culture at large, still places a high degree of stigma and shame on those who desperately need mental and emotional care.
I have ministered to teenagers and young adults whose parents would not allow them to get needed medication for bipolar, ADHD, depression and other conditions because they didn’t believe such illnesses were real, despite medical diagnoses. Some were afraid for their parents to find out that they were on medication for fear of being kicked out of their home. Others simply refused to come to church and sit in worship next to a parent who blamed all of their problems on them despite not allowing them to get the help they needed.
Mental illness and suicide is a complicated issue that impacts an increasingly large percentage of our population and it is not going away. Perhaps instead of avoiding, judging, rationalizing, or trying to simply pray it away, we might take our cue from 1 Kings 19. When Elijah wanted to die, God simply cared for him. God let him rest. God fed him. God was fully present and engaged. Can the same be said of us by those who so often suffer in silence?…