The Gift of Silence & Sacred Space

The Gift of Silence & Sacred Space

Simple Gifts - Part 5

Sunday, December 31, 2023
Habakkuk 2:20, Psalm 46:10, Luke 2:25-40

Simeon took Jesus in his arms and praised God. He said,  “Now, master, let your servant go in peace according to your word, because my eyes have seen your salvation.  You prepared this salvation in the presence of all peoples.  It’s a light for revelation to the Gentiles and a glory for your people Israel.”

 His father and mother were amazed by what was said about him...

 There was also a prophet, Anna the daughter of Phanuel, who belonged to the tribe of Asher. She was very old. After she married, she lived with her husband for seven years.  She was now an 84-year-old widow. She never left the temple area but worshipped God with fasting and prayer night and day. She approached at that very moment and began to praise God and to speak about Jesus to everyone who was looking forward to the redemption of Jerusalem.

 Luke 2:28-33, 36-38 (CEB)


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In my opinion, Simeon and Anna are two of the most overlooked and yet possibly the most relatable figures in the birth narratives of Jesus.  They don’t show up in the nativity scene, despite the fact that they encountered Jesus when he was only 8 days old, nearly a full two years before the Magi even arrive in town.

And yet, perhaps that is part of what makes them so relatable, for we did not go to the nativity either.  And if we’re honest, we very rarely go to the out of the way places where the living Christ is born in our world today, among the smelly animals and lowly shepherds on the margins of society.  No, perhaps we are more like Simeon and Anna because we stay in the temple, or in our case, in the protective walls of the church.

In general, we as Christians need to get out more.  Jesus calls us to be in the world and not of it, but more often we are of the world and not in it.  We are consumed by worldly concerns while working hard to separate ourselves from “worldly” people.  Some, like Simeon, Anna, and various monastic saints and mystics throughout the centuries, are called to this unique vocation of remaining cloistered in the house of the Lord, in order to point others to the kind of deep encounter with the Holy Spirit which they experience. 

This is the role of Simeon and Anna.  They have spent a lifetime waiting for God in the Holy Place.  They have devoted themselves fully to prayer, to fasting, and to waiting in silence for the promise of God to be fulfilled.  They study the scriptures deeply and pay close attention for signs of God’s presence among them… until one miraculous day, God actually walks through the door.  Well, actually he is carried through the door in the arms of his mother Mary, as an eight day old human baby brought before the priest to be dedicated to the Lord. 

As one who has spent my life in the church, and admittedly does not get out nearly enough, I find great hope and comfort in this passage.  It is a reminder that even when we fail to show up in the stables where Jesus comes to the least and the lost, no matter how good our intentions or reasons, Jesus still manages to come to us and meet us where we are, even in the church.  But when Jesus meets us here, and he will, we must follow Anna’s example.  We can no longer be silent.  We must  tell everyone who waits for redemption, especially when they don’t yet know what they are waiting for.

 

The Gift of Mystery

The Gift of Mystery

Simple Gifts - Part 4

Sunday, December 24, 2023
Psalm 8, Luke 2:8-20

When I look up at your skies,
    at what your fingers made—
    the moon and the stars
    that you set firmly in place—
         what are human beings
            that you think about them;
        what are human beings
            that you pay attention to them?

 Psalm 8:3-4 (CEB)

 

Nearby shepherds were living in the fields, guarding their sheep at night.  The Lord’s angel stood before them, the Lord’s glory shone around them, and they were terrified.

The angel said, “Don’t be afraid! Look! I bring good news to you—wonderful, joyous news for all people.  Your savior is born today in David’s city. He is Christ the Lord.  This is a sign for you: you will find a newborn baby wrapped snugly and lying in a manger.”

 Luke 2:8-12 (CEB)


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David, a lowly shepherd in the field watching his flocks by night, looks up at the skies and marvels and the wonder of creation, and even more at the great mystery that the God who placed moon and stars in the sky would care about and pay attention to someone like him.  One day this shepherd boy would be king of Israel and would unite the Kingdom in a way that no one has seen before or since.  But whether as a king or a shepherd boy, the mystery remains… Who is this God that would pay attention to a lowly human like me?

Nearly 1,000 years later, shepherds sat out upon those same fields, in the city of David, watching their flocks by night and looking up at the sky.  But instead of the moon and stars, they saw the radiance of an angel of the Lord who brought good news for all people, even seemingly insignificant people like them.

It’s easy to get caught up in the mysteries of obscure Bible passages we don’t understand or theology that doesn’t quite make sense.  Biblical scholars and theologians argue over whether Mary was actually a virgin, or just a young maiden as the original languages imply, and whether or not it really matters.  For centuries, Christians struggled to figure out the mysteries of the incarnation, wondering just how much of Jesus was actually God and how much was human?  Historically it was settled in the creeds, but Jesus himself never seemed particularly concerned with his disciples believing in his virgin birth or in explaining how his oneness with the Father actually worked.  The mysteries of Advent and Christmas were simply not mysteries Jesus and his followers ever considered.  The earliest gospel account in Mark doesn’t even have a birth narrative and the “Christmas Story” in Matthew is more about connecting Jesus with Moses than about recording historical and biographical events.

The nature of Jesus as the son of God is expanded in Luke and John, but still, the greater mystery remains.  It is the same mystery David wondered and the mystery the shepherds encountered first-hand when greeted by this heavenly messenger.  Who are we that God is mindful of us, that God pays attention to us, that God cares about us, and even more, that God has Good News for us, and for all people?  

Let us not be distracted by the historical details of Christmas, but let us marvel in the mystery that is God’s hope, love, joy and peace for us, and for all.

 

The Gift of Gratitude

The Gift of Simplicity

Simple Gifts - Part 3

Sunday, December 17, 2023
Psalm 100:1-5, Luke 17:11-19

On the way to Jerusalem, Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee.  As he entered a village, ten men with skin diseases approached him. Keeping their distance from him,  they raised their voices and said, “Jesus, Master, show us mercy!”

When Jesus saw them, he said, “Go, show yourselves to the priests.” As they left, they were cleansed.  One of them, when he saw that he had been healed, returned and praised God with a loud voice.  He fell on his face at Jesus’ feet and thanked him. He was a Samaritan.  Jesus replied, “Weren’t ten cleansed? Where are the other nine?  No one returned to praise God except this foreigner?”  Then Jesus said to him, “Get up and go. Your faith has healed you.”

 Luke 17:11-19 (CEB)


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We typically think of gratitude around Thanksgiving, but the truth is, gratitude is at the center of Advent and at the heart of every part of our spiritual lives. 

When we embrace the gift of slowing down, we notice how much of our lives are filled with clutter, both external and internal.  As we simplify our lives, we become more grateful for those things that matter most, the things that often get buried under the distractions of busyness and clutter. 

Slowing down and simplifying our lives helps bring healing to the chaos of our minds, our hearts, our spirits, and even our bodies, but if we are not careful, we will slip right back into our old habits.  Nine of the lepers were so excited when they found themselves healed that they didn’t even stop to think about the implications.  Presumably they went on and lived normal lives in a community from which they had previously been cut off, but they never pause to appreciate the significance of the gift they had received. 

Gratitude is not just about writing a thank you card for a gift under the tree or praying a blessing around the dinner table for our family and friends.  Gratitude moves us to a deeper awareness of the mysterious and surprising hope, peace, love & joy in our lives.

All ten lepers were likely thankful for their healing.  If they lived today, they would probably share it as a praise report in Sunday worship.  But only one experienced the deep, heartfelt gratitude that moved him to draw nearer to the source of his healing.  He went back to Jesus, overwhelmed by the grace and love he had received.

Notice the man who returned was a Samaritan, a foreigner, an outsider among outsiders.  Once, all ten were united by their disease which kept them in social exile, but now he alone remains an outsider, simply because he is a Samaritan.  I wonder if this is why he, more than the others, was so grateful, because he had no expectation that God should come to his aid. 

How often do we take for granted God’s presence in  because we are good Christians who deep down assume we deserve it?  The Samaritan had been conditioned to believe he was outside the bounds of God’s love.  That is why his gratitude was so much deeper.  He was not only physically healed, but because he was truly seen by Jesus, and his human dignity as a beloved child of God had been restored. 

What would it mean for you to feel truly seen by God in this season and how might a deeper sense of gratitude open your eyes to truly see others and to help others see themselves the same way?

 

The Gift of Simplicity

The Gift of Simplicity

Simple Gifts - Part 2

Sunday, December 10, 2023
Matthew 6:19-21, Luke 3:8-14, Philippians 4:4-13

Stop collecting treasures for your own benefit on earth, where moth and rust eat them and where thieves break in and steal them. Instead, collect treasures for yourselves in heaven, where moth and rust don’t eat them and where thieves don’t break in and steal them.  Where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

 Matthew 6:19-21 (CEB)


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Growing up in Baltimore, I remember fondly our annual Thanksgiving weekend trips to the snowy Christmas Tree Farm toward Pennsylvania, hiking through the fresh pines, taking in the wonderful scent, cutting the best one with a hacksaw and laying it on the conveyor to be wrapped up tightly in a net before putting it on the top of the car for the long drive home.  When we moved to Florida, we stopped buying real trees.  It’s not quite the same picking them up from out front of a grocery store. 

They say artificial trees last an average of 5 to 10 years.  Given the price of real trees, that’s not a bad investment. In November of 2000, McKenzie and I set off to Wal-mart to pick up a few decorations for our first Christmas together.  We had only been married 6  months and couldn’t afford much, but my one condition was that a Christmas tree had to be taller than me.  We found a 7.5 foot artificial Donner Fir for $79.74.  At the time, this was a pretty big investment for our budget, but 24 Christmases later, it is still the focal point of our living room from Thanksgiving to Epiphany.  So far, that investment has averaged out to $3.32 per year.  That tree has moved from a 1 bedroom apartment, to a double-wide trailer, to a small campus dorm style apartment in seminary, to 3 parsonages between Kentucky and North Carolina, and now to a rental home in Concord.  Every year it seems to lose more needles than it originally had, and yet somehow it is just as beautiful as that first Christmas.  A few years ago we talked about replacing it, but then we saw at a store how poinsettias could easily fill in a few bare spots.  We’ve moved from trying to find the cheapest one we could to being content with it each year and now to the point where we really never want to give it up.  It, along with the random collection of ornaments that trace our entire family history, have become part of our family. 

So what in the world does this nostalgic story of an artificial Wal-mart Christmas tree have to do with Advent or with scripture?  Well, maybe nothing… on the other hand, maybe everything.  For us, this tree along with the small nativity and two tiny wreaths we bought that first Christmas have served as a beautiful reminder of the simplicity we long for in this often hectic season.  They are no longer decorations just to put something up for Christmas, but have become symbols of what really matters most.  There have been some hard times and very challenging Christmases over these 24 years, and this tree has seen them all.  It’s branches hold space to remember the beauty in every season, no matter how hard it got. 

I wonder, what Christmas decoration or tradition might hold that kind of simple wonder for you? 

What little thing each year, that might go unnoticed by others, holds space for the deepest treasures of your heart? 

The Gift of Slowing Down

The Gift of Slowing Down

Simple Gifts - Part 1

Sunday, December 3, 2023
Luke 10:38-42, Isaiah 40:28-31, Matthew 11:28-30, Psalm 37:3-7

The Lord answered, “Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things.  One thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the better part. It won’t be taken away from her.”

Luke 10:41-42 (CEB)


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Have you ever noticed that the only spiritual practice explicitly commanded in the law is Sabbath?  Yes, we are instructed in worship, prayer, and countless other means of receiving God’s grace, but Sabbath is right up there in the big 10.  John Mark Comer writes:

God eventually has to command the Sabbath. Does that strike you as odd? It’s like commanding ice cream or live music or beach days. You would think we’d all be chomping at the bit to practice the Sabbath. But apparently there’s something about the human condition that makes us want to hurry our way through life as fast as we possibly can, to rebel against the limitations of time itself.” (Comer, The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry, 159).

Sabbath is about rest, and it is about acknowledging our limitations.  It is a call to slow down and be still with God, just as Jesus encouraged Martha in the midst of her own well intentioned hurry.   Consider the following 10 symptoms of “Hurry Sickness.” 

  1.  Irritability (especially at little things)

  2.  Hypersensitivity

  3.  Restlessness (difficulty relaxing)

  4.  Workaholism / non-stoop activity

  5.  Emotional numbness

  6.  Out of order priorities

  7.  Lack of care for your body

  8.  Escapist behavior (overeating, social media, binging TV, etc.)

  9.  Slippage of Spiritual Disciplines / Devotional Life

  10.  Isolation


How many do you have? 

Resist the tendency to feel guilt or shame.  These symptoms are tragically built into our culture and have become normal.  The point is to become aware of just how busy and chaotic our lives have become.

Once we become aware of this reality, we can take Jesus up on his invitation, to “take his yoke upon us, for his yoke is easy, and his burden is light.”  Frederick Dale Bruner reminds us that a yoke is a work instrument.  You would think he might offer a mattress or a vacation for our weary souls, but no, Jesus, realized that the most restful gift he can give is a new way to carry life; not an escape, but equipment to be more fully present in each moment and to find peace and rest even in our work. 

Dallas Willard says that we must “ruthlessly eliminate hurry from our lives.”  In a season of preparation and of learning to pay attention to the coming of Christ in our world, this seems a highly appropriate invitation. 

This advent, let us learn to honor Sabbath together, to receive the gift of rest.  Let us, as Paul writes, “make it our ambition to lead a quiet life” (1 Thess. 4:11). 

We will fail multiple times a day, but each time we can slow down, breathe, and come back to the present moment.  Let us breathe deeply in the love and peace of the Spirit, and breathe out our anxious busyness and toil, that we may be present enough to encounter the gift of Emmanuel, God with us, in each moment of our lives.